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How to Be a Gothic Lolita
Gothic Lolita is one of Japan's many popular street fashions that is growing
in popularity in the Western world today. The style often is meant to make
the wearer look doll-like, sweet and/or elegant. But, behind this fashion is
a lifestyle. Here's how to not only dress like but be Gothic Lolita.

Skwala

Dark, but not Goth