Larry L wrote:

I have a small gray bird here, with white wing patches that
are very distinct when he flies, and a "sorta 'Jay' look" ( birder I
ain't about him, that is driving me nuts.


This is a male, but the females are all gray. The one pictured is a
"Western Scrub Jay"

http://www.wildtexas.com/wildguides/scrubjay.php

but there are also "Florida Scrub Jays" which as I understand it are
endangered....

http://www.flmnh.ufl.edu/natsci/nima...ery/escrja.htm