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Tom Littleton March 6th, 2004 01:55 PM

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All,
It has been noted, by some who a regulars, and some who are less frequent
posters, that ROFF has gotten nearly painful to read of late. Bitter exchanges,
misinterpretations, off-hand insults and the like are far too common, the
latest example being Dave LaCourse's "dialogue" with several folks. Perhaps it
is, as suggested, the annual "cabin fever". I think, in some cases, it goes
deeper than that. Here in the US, we are in the midst of a divisive election
year. Further, as noted in his own posts, David has some serious health
worries. I think such worries can, and do, color one's tolerance and manner of
dealing with others. About a year back, Mike Connor and I had a bitter
exchange, which upon reflection was probably made far more virulent by the fact
that both of us were in distress over the health of a loved one. Not that such
are excuses, but I am here to make a plea for tolerance of others which seems
to have evaporated from the posts of some on here. As Wolfgang noted in another
thread, this place has been capable of spawning friendships, fishing
partnerships and a special kind of kinship among its participants over the past
10 years. I have always enjoyed the intellectual debates and downright
silliness that occurs here, but as wayno noted, the tearing asunder of
friendships is painful to watch. I beg for sanity, and an attempt to understand
the feeling of others. Take the tongue-in-check stuff with a grain of salt,
understand the limitations of Usenet communication and try to bring something
to the table that is positive once in a while. I'll probably get the
predicatable amount of response along the lines of "don't tell me what to
do...",etc, but really couldn't care less. I am not telling anyone what to do,
just hoping that some can find it in their souls to do the right thing, and act
like adults.
Tom

Ken Fortenberry March 6th, 2004 02:02 PM

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Tommy Littleton cued the sappy violin sound track and pleaded:

... Not that such
are excuses, but I am here to make a plea for tolerance of others which seems
to have evaporated from the posts of some on here. ...


**** that ****.

--
Ken Fortenberry


Tim J. March 6th, 2004 02:12 PM

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"Tom Littleton" wrote...
All,
It has been noted, by some who a regulars, and some who are less frequent
posters, that ROFF has gotten nearly painful to read of late. Bitter

exchanges,
misinterpretations, off-hand insults and the like are far too common, snip


Yeah, it sure would be good if the personal name calling and insults could be
taken off-line before they get placed on display here.

Oh, and FYT. :)
--
TL,
Tim
http://css.sbcma.com/timj



Peter Charles March 6th, 2004 03:17 PM

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On 06 Mar 2004 13:55:31 GMT, (Tom Littleton) wrote:

[a lot of reasonable stuff snipped]

I'll probably get the
predicatable amount of response along the lines of "don't tell me what to
do...",etc, but really couldn't care less. I am not telling anyone what to do,
just hoping that some can find it in their souls to do the right thing, and act
like adults.
Tom


While I agree 100%, I'm afraid that things won't change much for some
cannot challenge another's assertion without going personal, or
respond to an honest, open challenge, without personal commentary. I
doubt that will change. About all the rest can do is to killfile the
thread, (and only the thread) and refrain from joining in. If one
prefers not to killfile the thread because he/she enjoys blood sports,
then don't complain about all the OT & personal crap afterward.

It's blindingly obvious and has been stated a gazillion times: no one
is forced to post anything and no one is forced to read anything.
Intelligent use of one's newsreader client can provide a reasonable
solution to most issues.

About the only problem I see emerging is the apparent slowdown in the
accretion of new "regulars". The newsreader stats posted by Forty
seems to indicate a reduction in new/return posters and the same old,
same old dominating the charts. The seemingly endless internecine
warfare has to be turn-off for newbies. As I said previously, wayno
calls this place Darwinian and Darwin's theories include extinction.


Peter

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Willi March 6th, 2004 04:31 PM

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Peter Charles wrote:

About the only problem I see emerging is the apparent slowdown in the
accretion of new "regulars". The newsreader stats posted by Forty
seems to indicate a reduction in new/return posters and the same old,
same old dominating the charts. The seemingly endless internecine
warfare has to be turn-off for newbies. As I said previously, wayno
calls this place Darwinian and Darwin's theories include extinction.



The attrition of regular posters without being replaced new people, will
lead to deterioration. The infighting with the regulars is one thing and
it can dominate the conversations and go over board especially in the
Winter, but I think the part of ROFF that is most self destructive is
the game - "abuse the newbe" - that some people seem to find entertaining.

Personally, I find it hard to come up with any "on topic" stuff in the
middle of the Winter and fall into the "****" now and again. Spring is
just around the corner and I'm willing to bet things will improve. At
least I'll have more to say.

Willi




Wayne Harrison March 6th, 2004 04:39 PM

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"Tom Littleton" wrote in message
...
All,
It has been noted, by some who a regulars, and some who are less

frequent
posters, that ROFF has gotten nearly painful to read of late.


(snip well-reasoned plea for future group self-control)

over the winter, i have returned to my lifelong love of playing/singing
acoustic guitar. naturally, i sought a usenet group that expressed a shared
interest in the activity. the group, rmmga (rec. music. makers. guitar.
acoustic), is, in many ways, similar to roff. there is an obvious core
group of regulars (often referred to as the "inner circle") of about the
same size as here--i would estimate twenty to thirty would be a good guess.
they often discuss ot subjects, and they have their inside jokes, developed
from their clave-like regional meetings, which they call "gatherings".
their talent levels vary from rank beginners (even though those types may be
found among the "inner circle" of long time posters) to the highest level of
professional talent. they distribute, for a nominal cost, a collection of
songs/pieces about once a year, organized, collated, and produced by certain
of their membership. while the number of "regulars" is about the same as
roff, the number of "middleground" posters, random repeaters, and newbies,
is considerably higher than on our group.
within the relatively short term of my participation, i have watched
with considerable bemusement as the "inner circle", which is comprised of a
rainbow of personalities, met the challenge of a newbie who was determined
to bombard the group with thread hijackings centered around his own very
right-wing political attitudes. the core group, *almost to a man*, without
regard to the variation of their own politics, absolutely smothered the
renegade's efforts to create wholesale dissension. he retired from the fray
after about two or three weeks of fruitless blustering.
i must say that the quality of intellect and literacy displayed over
there doesn't match the best roff has to offer; few places do. but when it
comes to finding a place to go for some pleasant interaction concerning
one's particular choice of escapism, the guitar room is where i find myself,
more and more.
i fear that others, both regulars and those who just stop by for a drink
or two, now and then, will make the same choice, until roff as we knew it
will, as peter charles perceptively notes, becomes extinct.
my reading of tom littleton's post, and my understanding of my own
petulant urgings is not to make this place into a place populated by
stepford wives; no one wants a usenet version of "pleasantville". like most
of life, it's a matter of degree; and while no one can convince me that the
intensely personal vendettas that seem to have grown in number and intensity
over the last few months do not portend dark times, i know enough about some
of the people involved to hold out hope that we can mend the tears in the
fabric, at least for long enough to fish together again, and thereby heal
ourselves and this community.

yfitons
wayno



Willi March 6th, 2004 05:19 PM

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Wayne Harrison wrote:

my reading of tom littleton's post, and my understanding of my own
petulant urgings is not to make this place into a place populated by
stepford wives; no one wants a usenet version of "pleasantville". like most
of life, it's a matter of degree; and while no one can convince me that the
intensely personal vendettas that seem to have grown in number and intensity
over the last few months do not portend dark times, i know enough about some
of the people involved to hold out hope that we can mend the tears in the
fabric, at least for long enough to fish together again, and thereby heal
ourselves and this community.



In the past, I've made statements similar to yours from time to time
(although probably not as eloquently posed) and I was met with with
statements, from you as well as others, such as "all you want is a group
that discusses fishing - how boring", " if you don't like it don't read
it" etc. Things may be A BIT different right now on ROFF, but if they
are, they aren't much different.

I was puzzled by the recent criticisms you made of ROFF. It thought they
were quite similar to statements I made in the past that you discounted,
but now that you've found a new place to hang, it makes more sense.

Willi



Mike Connor March 6th, 2004 05:57 PM

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"Wayne Harrison" schrieb im Newsbeitrag
. com...
SNIP
of the people involved to hold out hope that we can mend the tears in the
fabric, at least for long enough to fish together again, and thereby heal
ourselves and this community.

yfitons
wayno



Even train wrecks pall eventually.

This is not a community, it is basically a motley collection of widely
differing individuals who happen to come in here for whatever reason.
There may be some community feeling at claves etc, but there is not much
here. This is mainly because many people can not get along with total
freedom of speech. (Within the limitations obtaining here of course).

Wishing others to be friendly and polite is not sufficient, one must also be
friendly and polite.

Without some form of control, chaos invariably eventually reigns. The only
real control here is self-control, and some simply donīt have any. I donīt
see this changing either.

If one discusses off-topic contentious material, then the results are
inevitable, as many disagreements almost immediately deteriorate into
personal battles. Hardly anybody wants to read or become otherwise involved
in such. It is embarrassing and pointless.

As a fishing NG, this place has become almost useless. Just like
governments, you get the newsgroup you deserve. If you want a better one,
then the general behaviour and attitude of the participants has to change. I
donīt think this is likely either.

This group can only become extinct if the level of posting sinks below a
certain level for a certain period of time. This too is unlikely. What is
possible is that more and more of the once prolific posters retire, or at
least post less, this might allow some new blood to assert itself. Whether
that is then "better" is a moot point, and entirely subjective.

As it happens, I agree with your sentiments, and Tom Littletonīs as well,
but others will not do so, and even this will cause contention, as doubtless
even my agreement therewith! Some comments to this effect have already been
made. Unless a common basis is found, and some people practice a little
restraint, things will simply not change.

TL
MC



JR March 6th, 2004 06:00 PM

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Peter Charles wrote:

About the only problem I see emerging is the apparent slowdown in the
accretion of new "regulars". The newsreader stats posted by Forty
seems to indicate a reduction in new/return posters and the same old,
same old dominating the charts. The seemingly endless internecine
warfare has to be turn-off for newbies. As I said previously, wayno
calls this place Darwinian and Darwin's theories include extinction.


The whole "Darwinian" business is cute but can only bear so much. Sure,
"survival of the fittest" and all that jazz. Hardly likely, though,
that a newsgroup would become "extinct" in anything like the way a
species does. People come, some stay, some go, some come back, some
stay gone. So, ROFF "mutates", it "evolves", but not in any Darwinian
sense. The size of the "core group" of regulars probably stays around
the same over time, with attrition and "recruitment" more or less equal
(who knows, maybe there's some more or less standard "inner circle" size
for Usenet--the maximum number whose personal histories, likes/dislikes,
etc., other Inner Circlers can comfortably keep in their heads).

And even if ROFF could cease to exist (or if it were to atrophy to
*only* the same 10-20 folks) and the rest of the millions of fly fishers
in the world went and did something else, just how dire would that be,
who would care?

JR

Ken Fortenberry March 6th, 2004 06:15 PM

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JR wrote:
...
And even if ROFF could cease to exist (or if it were to atrophy to
*only* the same 10-20 folks) and the rest of the millions of fly fishers
in the world went and did something else, just how dire would that be,
who would care?


Well said, JR. Maudlin pleas for comity, camaraderie and "can't we all
get along and sing a round of Kumbaya" are as old as cabin fever itself.
In actual point of fact, no, we cannot all get along, we never have and
we never will. Those who can deal with that, either by staying out of
the fray, ignoring it altogether or participating in it, will stay,
those who cannot will leave. 'Twas ever thus on unmoderated Usenet
newsgroups.

--
Ken Fortenberry


Peter Charles March 6th, 2004 07:12 PM

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On Sat, 06 Mar 2004 19:00:34 +0100, JR wrote:

Peter Charles wrote:

About the only problem I see emerging is the apparent slowdown in the
accretion of new "regulars". The newsreader stats posted by Forty
seems to indicate a reduction in new/return posters and the same old,
same old dominating the charts. The seemingly endless internecine
warfare has to be turn-off for newbies. As I said previously, wayno
calls this place Darwinian and Darwin's theories include extinction.


The whole "Darwinian" business is cute but can only bear so much. Sure,
"survival of the fittest" and all that jazz. Hardly likely, though,
that a newsgroup would become "extinct" in anything like the way a
species does. People come, some stay, some go, some come back, some
stay gone. So, ROFF "mutates", it "evolves", but not in any Darwinian
sense. The size of the "core group" of regulars probably stays around
the same over time, with attrition and "recruitment" more or less equal
(who knows, maybe there's some more or less standard "inner circle" size
for Usenet--the maximum number whose personal histories, likes/dislikes,
etc., other Inner Circlers can comfortably keep in their heads).

And even if ROFF could cease to exist (or if it were to atrophy to
*only* the same 10-20 folks) and the rest of the millions of fly fishers
in the world went and did something else, just how dire would that be,
who would care?

JR


Newsgroups do go extinct. It seems that if the number of posts seem
to drop below some critical mass that will hold sufficient interest,
then it drops off to virutally nothing. I have checked out different
newsgroups over the years, associated with my various hobbies and
interests. I've gone back after a one or two year hiatus and found
zero posts.

Will the fly fishing world go on? Yes.
Will it care if ROFF is gone? No.

The loss will only be felt by us.

Peter

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Tom Littleton March 6th, 2004 08:30 PM

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Forty notes:
**** that ****.


as predictable, as it is trivial, a comment.
Tom

Ken Fortenberry March 6th, 2004 08:37 PM

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Tommy Littleton sneered:
Forty notes:

**** that ****.


as predictable, as it is trivial, a comment.


No more trivial than your hypocritical plea, just quite a
bit less verbose.

--
Ken Fortenberry


Wayne Harrison March 6th, 2004 09:52 PM

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"Ken Fortenberry" wrote in message
om...
Tommy Littleton sneered:
Forty notes:

**** that ****.


as predictable, as it is trivial, a comment.


No more trivial than your hypocritical plea, just quite a
bit less verbose.

--
Ken Fortenberry


listen, ken, i need you to tell me the truth about something: who the
**** *are* you?

if you are the guy i met at the first clave, and have since, on several
occasions, fished with, drank with, laughed with, argued with, and just
enjoyed a sense of friendship with, but who simply has this inexplicable,
and apparently irresistable, need to become the virtual embodiment of the
term "asshole" during your participation in this newsgroup, then i can deal
with the situation, as we all must do as long as you post here.
but if the "real" ken is a charade, put in place to permit your
occasional attendance at gatherings of folks who enjoy a common recreational
activity, without having your ass chewed out or whipped, as the need might
arise, then let me know the truth. in that fashion, if the answer to the
latter scenario is "yes", i can merely return your sophomoric "**** you"
response on the web and in person, and both of us can get on with living a
little more closely to the truth. in my view, that is what we should all
try to do, without regard to how close to perfection our individual truth
might be.

and , fwiw, tom littleton is as far away from hypocrisy as your online
persona is from a state of grace.

your friend in the old north state
wayno




Ken Fortenberry March 6th, 2004 10:13 PM

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Wayne Harrison wrote:

listen, ken, i need you to tell me the truth about something: who the
**** *are* you? snipped


Which is the "real" wayno, the scourge of the newbies or the Kumbaya
evangelist from the guitar group, a friend of mine, or a behind my
back tutor who teaches "roff according to wayno" via email ?

You and Tommy both are all-star hypocrites. I can't be more truthful
than that. It's sweet that you feel compelled to squeal like little
school girls when Louie gets a well-deserved bitch slapping, but he's
a big boy now, when he dances the flamenco on his dick with track
shoes he deserves to be good and thoroughly bitch slapped. I can't
be more truthful than that.

I am Ken Fortenberry, if that's not what you expected either change
your expectations or learn to use your killfile.

--
Ken Fortenberry


Tom Littleton March 6th, 2004 10:14 PM

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Forty babbles:
No more trivial than your hypocritical plea, just quite a
bit less verbose.


YAWN
succinct enough for you?
Tom
p.s. I always liked the sporting bar analogy
of ROFF, but in a real bar, one can enjoy
watching people getting tossed after making nuisances of themselves....or,
getting their asses kicked.

Ken Fortenberry March 6th, 2004 10:20 PM

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Tommy Littleton threatens:
...
p.s. I always liked the sporting bar analogy
of ROFF, but in a real bar, one can enjoy
watching people getting tossed after making nuisances of themselves....or,
getting their asses kicked.


Asses kicked in a "Plea for Sanity" thread. Sweet.

No hypocrites here, no siree. ;-)

--
Ken Fortenberry


snakefiddler March 6th, 2004 10:25 PM

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"Wayne Harrison" wrote in message
. com...

"Ken Fortenberry" wrote in message
om...
Tommy Littleton sneered:
Forty notes:

**** that ****.

as predictable, as it is trivial, a comment.


No more trivial than your hypocritical plea, just quite a
bit less verbose.

--
Ken Fortenberry


listen, ken, i need you to tell me the truth about something: who the
**** *are* you?

if you are the guy i met at the first clave, and have since, on several
occasions, fished with, drank with, laughed with, argued with, and just
enjoyed a sense of friendship with, but who simply has this inexplicable,
and apparently irresistable, need to become the virtual embodiment of the
term "asshole" during your participation in this newsgroup, then i can

deal
with the situation, as we all must do as long as you post here.
but if the "real" ken is a charade, put in place to permit your
occasional attendance at gatherings of folks who enjoy a common

recreational
activity, without having your ass chewed out or whipped, as the need might
arise, then let me know the truth. in that fashion, if the answer to the
latter scenario is "yes", i can merely return your sophomoric "**** you"
response on the web and in person, and both of us can get on with living a
little more closely to the truth. in my view, that is what we should all
try to do, without regard to how close to perfection our individual truth
might be.

and , fwiw, tom littleton is as far away from hypocrisy as your online
persona is from a state of grace.

your friend in the old north state
wayno




well said uncle wayno-
this has been a question in my mind, as i find it difficult to believe that
folks could really enjoy fishing with such an abrasive human being.......
and as i tend to agree with some of your politics, ken, it pains me further
to know that i could share such ideals with one possessing the persona you
display on roff - (course i'm sure that could be said of many other folks
who politics i share, but will never meet.)

Snakefiddler- will the real forty please stand up?



Tom Littleton March 6th, 2004 10:31 PM

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Forty notes:
You and Tommy both are all-star hypocrites


I'll let wayno speak for himself, but I would like to ask: Where is my
hypocrisy? First, my post went far beyond the recent exchanges with Louie, and
yes he did act poorly(I noted a possible excuse, but it is just that, a sort of
rationale for out of character behavior). I was responding far more to: 1. The
noted dearth of new blood
in the posted stats; 2. The TONE and personal nature of attacks of late and 3.
The lack of consideration between folks who seem to have a long, positive
personal history. Now, how that gets to be hypocrisy, looking back on what and
how I have exchanged thoughts over the past 9 years, I can't figure. It is
interesting that you, and you alone, take personal offense to my plea.
FWIW, I have NEVER killfiled anyone, of my own choice. I figure it leaves me
unable to rejudge a person's character or motives.
Yes, I can, and do, avoid a lot of threads, once they bore me. I know perfectly
well that all of us can. I still don't see where, to those to whom ROFF
matters, a need exists to act like a perfect dickhead, or an insensitive jerk,
to people you interact with.
Enlighten me as to your reasons, if you have them.
Tom

Tom Littleton March 6th, 2004 10:33 PM

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Ken writes:
Asses kicked in a "Plea for Sanity" thread. Sweet.

No hypocrites here, no siree. ;-)


nope, I am trying to point out the dynamic of interpersonal behavior.
Obviously, it passed over your head.
apologies,
Tom

Ken Fortenberry March 6th, 2004 10:42 PM

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Tom Littleton wrote:

... Where is my
hypocrisy? First, my post went far beyond the recent exchanges with Louie, and
yes he did act poorly(I noted a possible excuse, but it is just that, a sort of
rationale for out of character behavior). I was responding far more to:
... 2. The TONE and personal nature of attacks of late and 3.
The lack of consideration between folks who seem to have a long, positive
personal history. Now, how that gets to be hypocrisy, looking back on what and
how I have exchanged thoughts over the past 9 years, I can't figure.


I had never, so far as I knew, ever had a cross word with you,
hell I've never even met you, when you ripped off a vicious
personal attack. I was surprised and I didn't know what to think.
You've repeated the performance on a couple of occasions since.
Therein lies your hypocrisy.

--
Ken Fortenberry


Tom Littleton March 6th, 2004 10:56 PM

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Ken writes:
I had never, so far as I knew, ever had a cross word with you,
hell I've never even met you, when you ripped off a vicious
personal attack. I was surprised and I didn't know what to think.
You've repeated the performance on a couple of occasions since.
Therein lies your hypocrisy.


ok, Ken, we have a semantics issue here.
By personal attacks, I was referring to attacks taking a low road(ie: attacks
dealing with an individual's personal life,
health, relatives,etc). I realize perfectly well that exchanges between
individuals here, or anyplace, will involve pointing a single person out. My
"attacks" upon you were an expression of my dismay on the seemingly ignorant
manner you choose to display when attacking others. Yes, I feel you behave like
a complete asshole on here. Yes, I believe you behavior influences the choices
of others to be here. Further,
I feel you are a perfect example of the kind of Usenet participant who talks
one way online, and hasn't the balls to do the same in person. I would be more
than happy to say so to your face, should I encounter you.
All this said, you were far from the source of my original post here. I was
responding to a seeming avalanche of poor interpersonal communication.
hypocrisy my ass,
Tom

Ken Fortenberry March 6th, 2004 10:58 PM

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Tom Littleton threatens again:

ok, Ken, we have a semantics issue here. ...


Semantics, my ass, you sanctimonious little prick, and I'd
be more than happy to say that in your face if I'm ever so
unfortunate as to cross paths with you.

--
Ken Fortenberry


rw March 6th, 2004 11:00 PM

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snakefiddler wrote:

well said uncle wayno-
this has been a question in my mind, as i find it difficult to believe that
folks could really enjoy fishing with such an abrasive human being.......
and as i tend to agree with some of your politics, ken, it pains me further
to know that i could share such ideals with one possessing the persona you
display on roff - (course i'm sure that could be said of many other folks
who politics i share, but will never meet.)


In person, Fortenberry isn't that hard to take. Butter wouldn't melt in
his mouth, as my late mother used to say. He can cook a more-than-decent
pasta. He's a halfway competent fisherman, considering his effete
affectations. I haven't yet seen him catch a fish, despite numerous
opportunities, but hope springs eternal. If you get into a political
discussion he might act up a little, and get personal, like he does on
ROFF, but a "**** you, Fortenberry" will put him in a more conciliatory
mood.

Which is the "real" Fortenberry? I don't know, and I don't really care.
My only regret is that I had a golden opportunity to put him on his ass
at the Henrys Fork Clave, with no one else around, and I passed, content
to scare him off with his tail between his legs. Maybe another
opportunity will come along, but I doubt it. Life is full of regrets.

--
Cut "to the chase" for my email address.

rw March 6th, 2004 11:03 PM

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Ken Fortenberry wrote:

Tom Littleton wrote:
snip


I had never, so far as I knew, ever had a cross word with you,
hell I've never even met you, when you ripped off a vicious
personal attack. I was surprised and I didn't know what to think.
You've repeated the performance on a couple of occasions since.


What? Was Tom trespassing on your turf?

Therein lies your hypocrisy.


Being a sweetheart in person and an asshole on ROFF --- that's hypocrisy.

--
Cut "to the chase" for my email address.

Tom Littleton March 6th, 2004 11:06 PM

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Ken states:
Tom Littleton threatens again:


sorry you feel threatened.

Semantics, my ass, you sanctimonious little prick, and I'd
be more than happy to say that in your face if I'm ever so
unfortunate as to cross paths with you.


ho-hum!
Tom

Ken Fortenberry March 6th, 2004 11:16 PM

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Tom Littleton wrote:

sorry you feel threatened.


Are you now ? That would make you a liar and a hypocrite.

Well, that went about as well as a Pollyanna plea could be
expected to go. Let that be a lesson to all of us.

--
Ken Fortenberry


Wayne Harrison March 6th, 2004 11:34 PM

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"Ken Fortenberry" wrote You and
Tommy both are all-star hypocrites. I can't be more truthful
than that. It's sweet that you feel compelled to squeal like little
school girls when Louie gets a well-deserved bitch slapping, but he's
a big boy now, when he dances the flamenco on his dick with track
shoes he deserves to be good and thoroughly bitch slapped. I can't
be more truthful than that.

I am Ken Fortenberry, if that's not what you expected either change
your expectations or learn to use your killfile.

--
Ken Fortenberry


ah, well, i am old enough to realize that friends are easily made, but
lost only with difficulty and regret. sorry, ken.

wayno




Tom Littleton March 6th, 2004 11:47 PM

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Ken writes:
sorry you feel threatened.


Are you now ? That would make you a liar and a hypocrite.


where did I threaten you? Trust me,chum, if you are trying to read between the
lines and get a threat out of it, you don't have a clue about me. Not that I
would be surprised over that, but.....If I wanted to threaten you, it would be
dead obvious, trust me.
Well, that went about as well as a Pollyanna plea could be
expected to go. Let that be a lesson to all of us.


as noted, you seemed to be the only one who stated any offense, so I figure
that bodes well. It seems, Ken, that you want to see things in Black and White,
Good and Evil, Friend and Foe. Kinda like our Commander in Chief, with
different politics.
That sort of stuff is a little shallow for my tastes, most of the time. I do
agree that a lesson might be learned by all, but not in the sense you see it.
Tom

Ken Fortenberry March 6th, 2004 11:54 PM

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Tom Littleton wrote:

... Trust me,chum, if you are trying to read between the
lines and get a threat out of it, you don't have a clue about me. Not that I
would be surprised over that, but.....If I wanted to threaten you, it would be
dead obvious, trust me.


I have more than a clue about you, "chum", I know you way better
than you'd like to think. I choose my words carefully and when I
refer to you as a sanctimonious little prick I do so as an astute
and experienced observer of Usenet personae.

--
Ken Fortenberry


Tom Littleton March 7th, 2004 12:13 AM

A Plea for Sanity
 
Ken blathers on:

point out the threat, Ken. I just don't like someone claiming I threatened
them, when I clearly did not. BTW, if you are gleaning your info from USENET,
your sources are a bit lacking, dontcha think?
EOT, at least insofar as wallowing with you is concerned.
Tom

Ken Fortenberry March 7th, 2004 12:23 AM

A Plea for Sanity
 
Tom Littleton wrote:

Ken blathers on:

point out the threat, Ken. I just don't like someone claiming I threatened
them, when I clearly did not. ...


================================================== ==============================
p.s. I always liked the sporting bar analogy
of ROFF, but in a real bar, one can enjoy
watching people getting tossed after making nuisances of themselves....or,
getting their asses kicked.


I feel you are a perfect example of the kind of Usenet participant who talks
one way online, and hasn't the balls to do the same in person. I would be more
than happy to say so to your face, should I encounter you.
================================================== ==============================

Big bad Usenet talk, you sound like the putz.

--
Ken Fortenberry


Wayne Harrison March 7th, 2004 12:29 AM

A Plea for Sanity
 

"Tom Littleton" wrote in message
...
Ken blathers on:

point out the threat, Ken. I just don't like someone claiming I threatened
them, when I clearly did not. BTW, if you are gleaning your info from

USENET,
your sources are a bit lacking, dontcha think?
EOT, at least insofar as wallowing with you is concerned.
Tom


"eot"...ah, a phrase to be valued, and to be seen more often, in a
better time. fewer friendships would be lost, and thereby less loss to life
itself.

wayno



Charlie Choc March 7th, 2004 12:38 AM

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On Sun, 07 Mar 2004 00:23:06 GMT, Ken Fortenberry
wrote:

Big bad Usenet talk,


Yet another irony meter shot to ****.
--
Charlie...

Ken Fortenberry March 7th, 2004 12:55 AM

A Plea for Sanity
 
Wayne Harrison wrote:

ah, well, i am old enough to realize that friends are easily made, but
lost only with difficulty and regret. sorry, ken.


What in the hell are you sorry about ? Or are you a graduate
of the Dave LaCourse school of insincere apologies ?

--
Ken Fortenberry


Willi March 7th, 2004 01:05 AM

A Plea for Sanity
 


Ken Fortenberry wrote:
Tommy Littleton sneered:

Forty notes:

**** that ****.



as predictable, as it is trivial, a comment.



No more trivial than your hypocritical plea, just quite a
bit less verbose.


Just a bit. The essence would have read:

"I'm proud to be an asshole and anyone who doesn't like
it can **** off."

Willi










Willi March 7th, 2004 01:05 AM

A Plea for Sanity
 


Ken Fortenberry wrote:

Tom Littleton threatens again:


ok, Ken, we have a semantics issue here. ...



Semantics, my ass, you sanctimonious little prick, and I'd
be more than happy to say that in your face if I'm ever so
unfortunate as to cross paths with you.



Better watch it Tom, the last time Ken called you a sanctimonious little
prick wannabe, this time you've graduated to a full fledged
sanctimonious little prick. I'm jealous. I thought he had that label
reserved just for me.

Willi






Tom Littleton March 7th, 2004 01:09 AM

A Plea for Sanity
 
Willi notes:
this time you've graduated to a full fledged
sanctimonious little prick. I'm jealous. I thought he had that label
reserved just for me.


Shoot, I was just getting to like "Dumbo"...
Tom


Ken Fortenberry March 7th, 2004 01:48 AM

A Plea for Sanity
 
Willi wrote:

Better watch it Tom, the last time Ken called you a sanctimonious little
prick wannabe, this time you've graduated to a full fledged
sanctimonious little prick. I'm jealous. I thought he had that label
reserved just for me.


You've graduated Willi, you've been the sanctimonious little prick
with a high horse welded on his arse for some time now. I was just
waiting for your diploma to come back from the printers.

--
Ken Fortenberry


Mike Connor March 7th, 2004 01:49 AM

A Plea for Sanity
 

"Tom Littleton" schrieb im Newsbeitrag
...
Willi notes:
this time you've graduated to a full fledged
sanctimonious little prick. I'm jealous. I thought he had that label
reserved just for me.


Shoot, I was just getting to like "Dumbo"...
Tom


You see? You canīt forget either. Once something is said on here, then no
amount of apologising, sincere or otherwise is going to make it unsaid.

Replying in kind, is not the way to "sanity".

TL
MC




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