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On Oct 13, 12:54*pm, Larry L wrote:
On Oct 12, 7:03*pm, Giles wrote: The best advice you've gotten so far is to teach where catching fish is as certain as is possible. *After all, the point of the whole exercise is to look cool......while catching fish, right? The kid wants to be a guide ( according to original post ) and I'd, therefore, assume he's well past the "getting him hooked" stage. *One thing guides do is teach and therefore the chance to be taught well is a chance to learn more than the casting, it is a chance to get a glimpse into how to teach this particular topic. As for propagating bad habits, everyone does that to one degree or another. *And fly casting ain't rocket science. There's many a weekend duffer who will outshine many a "pro." I think that this is like any other education we try to provide for our children ( and other loved ones ). * *The higher the quality of that education, the better. * The father/ son team spending time together in the outdoors is great and important, as a family bonding deal. * But if my son expressed the desire to "be a guide" ( any potential trade ) and wanted teaching, I'd try to afford a quality education. * Sure that could be a "weekend duffer" if that duffer actually outshines the available pros. * Sure he's young and the guide thing likely a passing notion ... but supporting passing notions is part of the parenting gig, imho. FWIW, I would not spend the bucks on lessons for myself ( lord knows I suck and could use them ) but wouldn't bat an eye at spending on them for my kid or wife. And not because ( as rdean suggested) of potential strife caused by trying to teach someone close. * *My wife and I got along just fine, but it soon became clear that I don't really understand casting mechanics well enough to explain why, for instance, "that tailing loop was different than that other one, different cause" * * I could often 'see' what was needed, could often take the rod and first duplicate her problem then show her a better cast that 'fixed' it, but I was poor at putting it into words that she could translate into physical acts. * *I used to teach dog training to others as part of making a living and know that practice ( at teaching ) improves results, and regardless of skill level at the task being taught, since teaching it is a separate skill ... good casting teachers need to know how to TEACH casting, not just cast, ime. With my wife and I, the end result of my teaching was she caught fish at places like the Henry's Fork Ranch, the Missouri, Firehole and Madison and she's 'hooked" .... but she and I both feel she needs better casting instruction than I am able to give, if she is to avoid many future frustrations, *progress quickly, and come closer to reaching her potential, as an angler. * * *I'd think that coming close to true 'potential' would be even more important for a kid with guideglitter in his eyes. Sorry I haven't gotten back to this in a day or so. I'll be damned if I don't believe I have the pig flu. Ironically, I got my seasonal flu shot last Wednesday and about Friday started feeling like crap. Came home yesterday from work and did not even try today. As a school teacher it is a real drag to miss days as I feel like I am letting kids down...but not as much as spreading this... I think I am gonna spring for a lesson or two and I know just the guy to do it. He is a local guide himself in the Ozarks and is good and reasonable. A funny drawback, and for all I know this may divulge somehow my son's true identity, he has the problem that he helps me run a website (which I used to promote via spam regularly here and elsewhere and got plenty o' grief for my efforts which I now realize were misguided ![]() forums, emails, ... He didn't think he'd be credible as a "punk kid" and so I think he has perhaps, shall we say, inflated his age. Anyway, this guide is one of the guys he corresponds with, though I believe not using his actual name. I will allow him to figure out how to deal with that if he even so desires. I mention all this in regards to him being already hooked on fishing. He spends ALL his free time fishing or learning about fishing or talking about fishing. He gets involved in stream conservation, fish stocking issues, access issues,... Sometimes it gets a bit much. All- in-all I can think of a lot worse things he could be doing, plus I never lack a fishing partner. He really does want to learn to fly fish and I think the only reason he didn't sooner, as I mentioned before, was that like his Dad the coordination thing is a little bit of a hurdle. Here's a quote from a blog entry he wrote to give an idea of his passion (no link provided ![]() "The Ozark streams in Missouri are a Godsend. They take your mind off of all of the present concerns on your mind, and, if you let them, can make you happy in a more elemental way than any man made attraction. These streams are what they always have been, and God-willing, always will be. They are natural, they are free flowing, and they provide the healing water needed to make us feel like everything is right, if only for a little while." As an aside, we fished the Madison and Firehole a couple of years ago (you mentioned those 2 rivers). We spent a month in MT, WY, and SD and got on a lot of the great rivers out there as well as many smaller streams. Probably my favorite was the North Tongue in the Wyoming Bighorn Mountains. Another awesome area was the Cabinet Mountains area in NW Montana. This isn't a fishing story, but we rented from the FS a firetower for 4 days. My kids were running behind my truck (they are XC runners) in the mountains one day when a sow and cub ran between them and my truck. My wife jumped out of the truck with her enormous cannister of pepper spray and gave those poor bears a heart attack (without even loosing her pepper fury upon them). She was a bit more restrictive of their running endeavors afterwards. This trip was put together after I realized that the trip I had planned to Alaska (where I grew up...Sitka) would be in lieu of them going to college. Perhaps I am just looking on the bright side of things, but I don't think we missed out on anything. Obviously I am rambling in a fever induced stream of consciousness so I'll end there. All the Best (and thanks once more for all the great advice), Paul |
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On Oct 13, 2:38*pm, Family-Outdoors wrote:
..."The Ozark streams in Missouri are a Godsend. They take your mind off of all of the present concerns on your mind, and, if you let them, can make you happy in a more elemental way than any man made attraction. These streams are what they always have been, and God-willing, always will be. They are natural, they are free flowing, and they provide the healing water needed to make us feel like everything is right, if only for a little while.".... Might want to employ the services of a fact checker (all the best writers are doing it these days) with regard to the pristine nature of the streams but otherwise not a half bad bit of wordsmithing. Maybe you should encourage him the sling more ink.....just in case the fishing guide thingy doesn't work out. Hell, it pays just about as well.....and it isn't seasonal.....and it's every bit as respectab.......um.....well, never mind about that. giles |
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